Irreplaceable friend
...ne like this where you get to the point that silence can be the best conversation you have ever had. It’s funny and sometimes scary how alike we think and view the world. It wasn’t like that the first months we have been friends, we came from completely different backgrounds with different opinions. Sharing the past memories and finding out same interests and experiences, had brought us together; it’s a first step to getting to know each other, opening up. Nothing in the world is perfect and even in best relationships conflicts arise, the one thing that you must know how to do is learn how to deal and cope with such challenges. Many people give up and let go because of one single fight, many people don’t like to get into too much detail and resolve the situation. One is always faced with a challenge, but you must embrace and deal with facts, truth hurts but teaches many lessons. Many people lie and deceive the ones they love the most, but the reason we do it because we are scared that we are not good enough, therefore we put on a mask full of lies to make others believe what they want to believe and speak of what they want to hear. A true friend will love you for who you are inside and embrace you with open arms. Honesty and integrity is the key to any relationship that you want to last. Sharing your life with a friend is easy when you have complete sincerity. I remember arguments and disagreements, the things we said to each other we didn’t really mean. And I also remember that only minutes later we were laughing so hard we cried. Not always the road is smooth, quite often it gets bumpy, but without those bumps we wouldn’t really be who we are, we wouldn’t know what life is all about, we need that to make us stronger and wiser. But wouldn’t it be much easier to survive those bumps with someone who encourages you, believes in you and most of all takes you in the way you are. We all have heard that we must learn how to listen to people not only hear what they have to say, it is a huge difference when you actually take time and listen to what the person has to say and figure out the needs of that person. Once you learn how to listen you will know the person much better, and than you can even hear the things that are not said at all. With honesty, trust and ability to communicate with each other, I always ask for advices in knowing that the right path will be shown to me and even if that path is not taken we will be by each others side. I can always depend on my friend being there for me with the right words of advice, even if I do not want to hear what she has to say. Informing and guiding me with my choices but never forcing anything on me. She showed me that there is truly never a reason to get upset and angry to the point that I will allow myself to be controlled by my emotions, because it doesn’t matter what others do to you, what matters is how you deal with the situation. This is one of the many valuable lessons I learned and have made a part of my life. Over the years we have shared so much and built a relationship that is lasting and precious in every way. The memories we share together remind me of how lucky I am for such a friend that lets me into her life to share happ...