Nora's Independance in "A Doll's House"
...ollection of the money she had borrowed from him. "You don’t mean that you will tell my husband that I owe you money?" (21). Nora was wrong in doing so socially, so she could not tell Torvald or anyone else about her problem. Not only would that affect their social standard but also Torvald's ego, which inevitably would happen anyway. After Krogstad threatens to expose Nora for forging her father's signature, she realizes that no matter what she does Torvald was going to know the truth. The flaw within this patriarchal framework becomes apparent when Nora discovers that she has no legitimate name of her own. She can use neither her married name nor her maiden name to borrow money. She finds that she cannot appropriate her father's name. In other words, as a married woman she has neither authority nor identity. Panic begins to set in and she begins to feel helpless because there is absolutely nothing she can do about the situation. In act two Nora continues to act as she is supposed to, as a perfect housewife. She confides in her friend Mrs. Linde about her problem with Krogstad for the first time, which shows that she is starting to break free from Torvald and think for herself. Knowing that there isn't much that can be done to prevent Torvald from finding out, she tries to delay him from reading the letters. The climax of the play happens when Torvald reads the first letter Krogstad sent Nora, and Torvald's reaction is unfortunate. He treats her with utterly no respect, calls her a liar and is ready to throw their whole marriage away just because his name might be hurt. He refuses to help her in any way, which shows that their marriage really didn't mean anything much. "What a horrible awakening! All these eight years – she who was my joy and pride – a hypocrite, a liar – worse, worse – a criminal! The unutterable ugliness of it all! For shame! For shame!” (62). When the second letter came and he found out that his name was saved, he acts as nothing just happened between the two of them and everything was back to normal. “Try and calm yourself and make your mind easy again, my frightened little singing bird. Be at rest and feel secure; I have broad wings to shelter you under. How warm and cozy our home is, Nora. Here is shelter for you… Tomorrow morning you will look upon it all quite differently; soon everything will be just as it was before” (64). Nora realizes that here is a problem still. By waiting until after he discovers that his social status will suffer no harm, Torvald reveals his true feelings, which put appearance, both social and physical, ahead of the wife whom he says he loves. He looked at her as if she were just a possession of his and nothing more. He was more interested in her physically than emotionally. "You have still got the tarantella in your blood, I see. And it makes you more captivating than ever." (57). Torvald tries to rekindle Nora's slave sprit in an effort to validate him and to reestablish his dominance over his environment after their argument. Helmer pleads with Nora: "You have loved me as a wife ought to love her husband. Only you had not sufficient knowledge to judge of the means you used. But do you suppose you are any the less dear to me because you don’t understand how to act on your own responsibility? No, no; only lean on me; ...