should it be arranged?
... the rest of life together. It is true that the couple in arranged match seldom get divorced, because both sides of the marriage have been carefully seclected with similarities in education, incomes, accomplishment, family background and things like that. Once they fight for divorce, their familes will try every effort to persuade them to find a solution to save the marriage. Compared those people who get married through free courtship, the bond between the couple planned by the parents seems more stable. Nevertheless, the couple¡¯s feeling about each other is usually ignored. What if they two see nothing in common in the value of world? What if their hobbies run totally contrary to each other? Such questions weight a lot in marriage but have been put in the inferior place. On the other hand, people who pursue love freely have the opportunity to know their partners better before getting married. They focus much on how they feel about each other, appreciating every moment being together. Marriage based on this may reduce the risk of demostic violence. In addition, by tak...