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Mediation is a very effective tool in parent/child communication. A mediator is a neutral facilitator, trained in communication and problem solving skills to help people in conflict work out mutually agreeable solutions. ...
One of my first parent/child mediations involved Linda, a single mother whose son, Barry, had rung up a multi-thousand dollar phone bill. ... In the process, they learned tools and skills for effective communication which helped them in all facets of their lives.
As an adult, I can faintly remember some of the feelings I experienced as a child, feeling helpless, isolated and powerless against the wishes and restrictions of my mother and stepfather. ... Now, as I help raise my son, I can see that his life is greatly impacted by issues greater than a child should have to handle. ...
In communicating with my son, I have found listening to be the most effective tool. ... When I conduct parent-child mediations, I find the children to be very cooperative and willing to abide by the rules of the mediation process. ... Families experiencing incidents of petty theft, running away, excessive physical conflict, etc. ... In the case of Jessica and Alice, an invisible dynamic was fueling their conflict. ...
Each conflict is unique, the issues for each individual in the conflict brings a myriad of perspectives and experiences to the table.
Approximate Word count = 1095
Approximate Pages = 4.4
(250 words per page double spaced)
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