How To Be A Friend
...s and interests--you often talk about 'being on the same wavelength' in most cases. But sometimes you perhaps do not agree with each other. Then you have to learn to make allowances for each other, to put up with annoying habbits and to accept differences in opinion. Futhermore, you should always read his thoughts. It is important for you to understand him.If not,chances are that you will have words with him. However, communicating is everything. Having a heart-to-heart talk may break the ice and clear up misunderstanding. To be a friend,you should share his feelings, not only pleasure but also distress. When he succeeds, you are on top of the world. When he fails, you are in great pain. Laughing together, crying together. The mutual support does create a close and lasting relationship, which can overcome difference in background, and break down barriers of age, class or race. There is a possibility that he is in trouble. Never turn away from him. 'A friend in need is a friend indeed'. On one hand, you should encourage him and tell him not to give up, just like candles shining in the darkness. On the other hand, you should give a hand to him without hesitation and spare no efforts to help him. If necessary, you are ready to die for him. As a proverb goes,'A friend is, as it were, a second self.' Friend is a mirror. So you are supposed to criticize him for the mistakes he has made, point out his shortcomings and bad habbits and give advice if he needs. What's more, choosing a prope...