HOW TO COPE WITH A BROKEN HEART
...ain--not knowing how to pick up the pieces of your broken self and put them back together again. LOVE NEVER WANTED YOU TO END UP THAT WAY! LOVE WAS NEVER DESIGNED TO PURPOSELY HURT PEOPLE. It's just that people choose to get hurt by allowing others to take advantage of them. Love is not a morphine that makes one forget reality. Love is a bitter pill that one swallows and takes the risks of being happy or sad. LOVE IS A CHOICE. LOVE IS AN EXERCISE OF ONE'S FREE WILL. FREE WILL is given as a gift to peole as a leeway--a chance to somehow control their lives and make it suitable to achieve the "necessities" of one's life. But, more often than not, FREE WILL caused failures to people's lives because they don't know how to make the right choices. Perhaps, it can be attributed to people's idea of what happiness is all about...perhaps, the difference in standards of knowing what it is like to be happy. It is because of FREE WILL that we choose to be in love...it is because of FREE WILL that we choose to give others the license to hurt us...it is because of FREE WILL that we become miserable after each break up...it is because of FREE WILL that we choose to learn from our failures at love...and it is because of FREE WILL that we learn how to stand again and LOVE AGAIN and BE HURT AGAIN...it is because of FREE WILL that we choose to settle down with someone who we think fits our personality, helps us achieve our purpose in life and qualifies to our standards of happiness...it is because of FREE WILL that we may choose to live alone and set the parameters and close our hearts to others. LOVE BEGETS LOVE. LOVE IS NEVER A ONE-WAY STREET. LOVE IS SYMBIOTIC. LOVE...