Good Effects From Divorce
...endent. I relied on my ex-husband for everything, like doing chores around the house and outside, making most of the money, and being there for me. I didn’t realize how much I depended on him until I had to do everything myself. I was so lucky to have my sister move in with me. We had the chance to grow closer together, in turn making us both independent. I have that attitude now where I can do anything by myself that I set my mind to. Being independent has helped me to be able to make better choices. The main reason why I didn’t want to be with my ex, was because he was using drugs. I told myself that I would never do that again! I decided to go back to church and make wiser choices on the men that I dated. I wanted someone who didn’t smoke, drink, had a job, great personality, and someone who believed in God. Sticking to these guidelines, I finally found such a man. Finally, it was time to start over with a brand-new life. As my divorce was finalized, I decided t...